Ya this definitely takes a special touch. Pat gave a good run down. I fought with one for a few hours then Karl came over and over and was like all you have to do is make sure everything is lined up inside side wiggle it around and it should fall in. He did it in like 5mins that took me way to long to fail at. I still probably can’t replicate 🤣. It can be a pain if you have not done many TOMos, don’t feel bad about it. Stay persistent I bet you get it.