I was pretty fucked up last night when I posted this...I got some sleep, ate for the first time in 2 days and was able to think..
I have a plan now..
Crematorium will do financing. We can cover the monthly bills. After I get some money together I'll pay a probate lawyer for an hour of his time...luckly there isn't any arguement about the house...so all we really need to do is switch it over..which I believe we can do at the courthouse...
Thanks everyone. I appreciate it.