The people in our lives are what matters... i like my moped hobby but when no one wants to ride or build with me i find it very empty. Same with collecting video games... i recently started purging my collection of most games due to no one else in my circle caring... i pretty much just kept stuff that i can forsee doing with the family. I have things that i enjoy alone but family really is starting to take precedent in my life. I kind of discovered (again) that my wife is more intriguing than my hobbies and have spent a bunch of time with her lately. I can literally go stair at a pile of rocks and enjoy my time with her.
If i can advise anyone on anything here is too set aside your differences with your spouses and just love them. Even if your right in an arguement maybe learn to compromise and be content if you dont walk away the victor. Just dissolve the differences and become a couple again. I really dont want to end up as one of those guys with the horrible nagging wife.